In Ellen Petersen’s Stanford garden, time folds in on itself. On a warm afternoon in July, the air is quiet but vibrant with scent and motion: bees circle blossoms, grasses sway gently, and a 30-foot-wide patch ofย Sporobolus heterolepisย (prairie dropseed) hums with subtle activity. It is here, in the hush of her 7-acre landscape, that Petersen has conjured a series of distinct yet connected worlds, each rich in botanical character and steeped in thoughtful design.

The centerpiece of one such world, one thoughtful corner of Petersen’s living landscape, is a massive Magnolia ashei, a rare species native to the American Southeast with prehistoric roots. Its leaves are as broad as dinner plates, and its seed pods โ fist-sized and otherworldly โ hang like relics of deep time. โOther than ginkgo, this is the oldest living plant,โ Petersen said. โIt really does look like it’s from the dinosaur era.โ The treeโs presence, towering and quiet, conjures not just shade but awe. If you look long enough, you find yourself transported to a mystic realm, free from the relentless forward march of time.
Petersen moved to Stanford with her late husband in 1981 and began with almost nothing: โThere was a really old, gnarly apple tree, one peony, two Clematis, some Iris, and a Lupinus that died instantly,โ she recalled. โThe oak tree was planted for my husbandโs 40th birthday.โ The house, like the garden, grew organically over the decades. โMy mother said we should have torn it down and started all over again โ itโs a very eccentric, strange house, but it suits us.โ
Self-taught at first, Petersen expanded her knowledge after relocating to Westchester, Pennsylvania. โWe lived there for eight years and I took every single course offered at Longwood Gardens,โ she said, referring to the renowned public horticulture institution near Kennett Square. โThat was how I educated myself for all this.โ Today, she serves on the boards of the Brooklyn Botanic Garden and Innisfree Garden in Millbrook.

Fragrance plays a guiding role in her planting philosophy. โPeople donโt realize how much scent is part of gardening,โ she said. โYou canโt always smell it up close, but itโs there in the air.โ Her favorites include Hamamelis (witch hazel), Lindera benzoin (spicebush), and Calycanthus ร raulstonii ‘Hartlage Wine’, a deep red hybrid with a scent reminiscent of its name.
โMy son once said, โMom, what is that smell?โ,” Petersen recalled. “It was February. We were outside and I said, โThatโs witch hazel.โ He stuck his nose in and said, โNo way.โ But it was. The scent was just in the air.โ
Among the most striking features of the garden is the prairie dropseed field, planted in a single day with nearly 3,000 plugs. โI saw this plant in a garden in Illinois, just a 10-by-10 square of it, and I thought it was so graceful,โ Petersen said. She later found a larger installation elsewhere and was inspired to replicate the effect. โIt turns a sort of taffy color later on in the year, and the smell is a little bit like cilantro soap,โ she said. โSome people love it. I do.โ The planting has been maintained through controlled burns โ weather permitting โ and, more recently, by hand.

Throughout the property, sculptures by contemporary artists emerge like visual punctuation. An angular bench by Vivian Beer, a graceful steel arch by Carla Edwards, and a towering aluminum archway by Canadian sculptor Robert Murray are all carefully placed to interact with the surrounding plantings. โI chose the placements,โ she said. โItโs all part of the composition.โ
Petersenโs approach blends formal structure with ecological spontaneity. She embraces native species, encourages self-seeding, and leaves Asclepias (milkweed) for monarch butterflies. โSome of the best things just happen,โ she said. โI donโt mind a plant that someone else might call a weed.โ Her Eutrochium purpureum (Joe-Pye weed) stands more than seven feet tall. โIt was supposed to be four feet, but a seedling showed up and just grew,โ she said.
Different parts of the property feel like different ecosystems. One area might be anchored by banana plants overwintered indoors, another by Franklinia alatamaha, a flowering tree named for Benjamin Franklin now extinct in the wild. โEvery one you see today came from a collection of seed by John and William Bartram,โ she explained.

Despite the abundance, she gardens slowly. โI like to watch things develop,โ Petersen said. โI was a nursery school teacher. Itโs a similar thing. You donโt push them along.โ
After more than 40 years of work, the garden remains in motion. There are plans to expand a bed using newspaper and compost to smother grass. โI work in little bits,โ she said. โItโs not all garden, but about seven acres. I have help, but I still do something out here nearly every day.โ
A patch of Clematis trailed over a trellis, a native rose ripened toward seed, and poppies bloomed plenty in a tucked away compost heap. โTheyโre just from the pile,โ she said. โI didnโt even plant them.โ
In her garden, planned but ever changing, Petersen’s joy remains rooted not in control, but in surprise.
Ellen’s Top 3 Gardening Tips
- โLook at your garden a lot. Really see it โ whatโs changing, whatโs struggling, whatโs thriving.โ
- โDonโt assume something is dead just because it hasnโt leafed out yet.โ
- โLearn something about the plants so you know what to expect.โ
This article is part of our ongoing series, โA Walk Through the Garden,โ which highlights the private gardens of residents across Pine Plains, Ancram, Gallatin, Milan, and Stanford. To share your garden or nominate a neighborโs, email editor@newpineplainsherald.org.



















A lovely article with wonderful photos, and I appreciated her advice about waiting to see if a plant leafs out before giving up on it. I had a pair of roses I was uncertain about who recently surprised me with leaves and blooms. Gardening is a joy.
What a wonderful article! Your beautiful garden brings joy to all who see it. Much love from a totally unbiased stranger named Richard ๐
Ellen, what a lovely and sensitive article, replete with photos of carefully considered vegetation and architecture. I, too, love a massive and mysterious magnolia tree! Gardening makes for such a happy past time !